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> 1987 Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal Church
50th Anniversary Remarks
of Philip H. Dougherty on the occasion of the 50th
Jubilee Dinner Dance held on July 11, 1987 at the
Parish Hall. Contributed by Margaret Dougherty, Mr.
Dougherty's daughter. Considering
what it means to a community the 50th Anniversary of
a parish is a very special thing. Baptisms,
marriages, funerals and the Sunday Masses in the
company of friends - it is, as it is intended to be,
the center of a Christian life. But
I want you to know that the founding of Our Lady of
the Miraculous Medal parish isn't the only 50th Anniversary
in town for 1987. In 1937 I graduated from All
Hallows grammar school. Stan Hoolahan was graduating
from All Hallows High School. But please don't tell
me I look older than Stan. More
important to me than graduation, though, was that
1937 marked the year that the Doughertys, after five
years of renting and despite a hellish depression,
built a summer home of their very own with the help
of Ralph Vail, at 66 Lynbrook Avenue, the first
house built on that newly built street - the
grandest avenue in a grand town. But
that was important only to my clan. I can't remember
it, but the rest of the town must have been talking
about being a Catholic parish at last. St. Mary of
the Isle was a way to travel on Sunday. Things were
to change later on. Before we had our church we had
Mass in the annex to the Fire Hall that is now Ye
Olde Firehouse Exchange. It was kind of cramped, but
we were very hardy in those days; we even managed to
survive without kneelers. And the fact that there
were no kneelers turned out to be a great help to me
in my first job - selling the Tablet. For
those who don't remember, the Brooklyn Tablet, as it
was called in those days, was considerably to the
right of Ghengis Kahn. Somehow, me and the rest of
my gang, which included Joe and Jimmy Slavin from
Glenwood and, I'm sure Bobbie and Howie Meny, even
if they were Lutherans, were conscripted to sell the
Tablet outside church. The guy who nailed us was
Captain Rockford. The Captain won his navy rank in
World War I in France commanding a battery of big
navy guns, that were mounted on trains. he lived
next door to the Hoolahans on Hewlett with his
brother Russell and his sister Helen (who learned
about red hair dye way before most women). We
never got paid for our work as Tablet salesmen but
at the end of the season the captain threw us a
beach party out in the dunes. And my friends, the
dunes were really dunes in those days. What I was
referring to about the kneelers was the sales pitch
to the churchgoers. It went like this. "Get
your Tablet here. You don't have to read it, but you
can kneel on it. Get your Tablet." That's how I
got interested in the Ad game. I guess Captain
Rockford could be considered a Character. we had our
share of them. A
real favorite was Smelly Sam, who lived with his
horses out in the dunes and used them, hooked up to
a scoop, to dig foundations for new houses. He also
used them to pull his wagon on street-cleaning duty. Piccolo
Pete with his bike was certainly an annual
summers-only character. And who can remember Jazzbo,
the black man who lived across the bay and could row
a boat with the speed of an outboard, or at least
that's the way I remember it. And
please let us not forget beloved Tom Dyer, our
postmaster, who always managed to get the letters in
the right boxes despite his broken eyeglasses. And
in his own way, too, Father Butler, holy as he was,
was a bit of a Character himself. Who can forget him
taking up the collection solo in order to supervise
our charitable inclinations. And there was no saving
the cheapskate who might want to slip some lowly
coin into the side of the basket. Father used a
felt-covered plate on which coins stood out in all
their horrid smallness. It was always clean and
receptive since he emptied it after every row. Of
course, Father seemed not to be looking. His eyes
appeared to be closed, and frequently he seemed in
reverie as he sang along with his favorite recorded
hymn on the P.A. System. It could well have been Ava
Maria since he ad recordings of it by both Bing
Crosby and Perry Como. Then there was another
hymn that I was convinced was by Jerry Callon.
"Keep me from stain of sin just for
today." As
I recall it - and remember these are the memories of
an aging youth - Father had a keen interest in
currencies of the world. If the gospel of the day
mentioned an ancient coin like a drachma or groat
the pastor would give an inordinate amount of time
to discussing the worth of such a coin, even going
so far as to compare its value to the Swiss franc of
the day. I loved some of those New Testament words
by the way: Would you give me a groat for a firkin
of nard? Or, nard by the firkin, one groat. That's
advertising. Compared
to the age of the earth - 40 billion years - give or
take - 50 years isn't much. And, given the
unfathomable size of the universe, Point Lookout is
smaller than the smallest gnats kazoo in the big
picture. But the Good Lord really blessed this place.
The sand, the water, and sometimes the Sun.
Great. No wonder those Stuyvesant Town
refugees think they're in Heaven. But love it the
way they do, they don't know the Point Lookout of my
memory - that's the Point Lookout where I could run
from Lynbrook to Parkside without every taking to a
Drive, a Street or a Boulevard. No fences, and
almost no grass. Scully's Weeping Willow was on
Freeport, already a giant, while Mr. Scully was
still chief of the Fire Department and head of the
ushers. And it's not hard to remember peeking
through the windows at Savages on the corner of Lido
Boulevard and Baldwin, and watching grown-ups
dancing away to a real live band. What about bands
up at the Point Lookout Bathing Beach long before
the first beach club? And remember the fund-raising
bash that Father Butler had up there? In
my mind's eye I see Lauders down here on the corner.
Snappers were great off the pier there. And they
weren't bad off Old Town Dock either. That's before
we built the ball field where the Parish Hall
parking lot is now. I
see many faces here tonight that I've said Hi to,
shook hands with, and even danced the Lindy with - a
lot right here in this building, as in our church
where we have shared many important times, in our
Parish Hall, we have enjoyed
some great parties. Speaking of which, will you ever
forget Jerry Galvin's Spectagalas. If they weren't
the parties to end all parties. They had to be the
best of all for all time. One
last thing. Let me say that when beloved pastor,
A.K.A. Father Gallagher, asked me to speak tonight I
was truly honored - considering that in his day -
Father Butler would probably have asked me to leave
town instead. In
any event, to get myself immersed in the feel of 50
years ago this very day, I went back to the New York
Times files and found some interesting stuff. John
Davids was selling suits for $22 and white shirts
for $1.95. George Gershwin died in Hollywood, and
three Russians took off in bad weather from Moscow
to be the first to fly over the Pole to New York. I
don't know if they made it, but at least they didn't
have to worry about radar or missiles. Patricia
Bowman (whoever she was) and the Fokine Ballet
(whoever they were) wowed the crowds at the Jones
Beach Stadium, and the Giants took the Dodgers in
both games of a double header. And
here's the one that really boggled my mind. On July
11th 50 years ago, a five-day heat wave ended that
was responsible for 38 deaths in the Metropolitan
Area - and the temperature never went above 89
degrees. Maybe
we weren't so tough after all. |